DOES MY CHILD REALLY NEED THIS?  DO I REALLY NEED THIS?

Take this Quiz to find out!

After being a parent for 18+ years and working with families with troubled adolescents for the past 5 years, I understand how hard it is to even consider sending a child out of the home.  An associate of mine compiled a checklist for parents to utilize to help them see if they really need this type of treatment.  I spoke to a father the other day that told me that after reviewing this checklist, he realized that he truly needed the help and that the programs that I offered him were his answer.

I wanted to make this checklist available to you to reassure you of the choice you may need to make regarding your own family.

1. Does your teen struggle with basic family rules and expectations? Yes No
2. Has your teen ever been suspended, expelled, truant or had a drop in school grades?
3. Has your teen ever been verbally abusive?
4. Does your teen associate with a bad peer group?
5. Has your teen lost interest in former productive activities, hobbies or sports?
6. Do you have difficulty getting your teen to do simple household chores or homework?
7. Has your teen had problems with the law?
8. Do you find yourself picking your words carefully when speaking to your teen, so as not to elicit a    verbal attack or rage from them (walking on eggshells)?
9. Are you worried that your teen may not finish High School?
10. Does your teen seem depressed or withdrawn at times?
11. Is your teen's appearance or personal hygiene down?
12. Has your teen ever displayed violent behaviors?
13. Is your teen manipulative or deceitful?
14. Does your teen seem to lack motivation?
15. Do you suspect that your teen lies or is dishonest?
16. Are you concerned that your teen may be sexually active?
17. Any evidence of suicidal ideation?
18. Do you suspect that you have had money or valuables missing?
19. Does your teen's behavior concern you for their safety?
20. Is your teen angry or displaying anger outbursts?
21. Does your teen seem to lack self-esteem and self worth?
22. Do you have a lack of trust with your teen?
23. Does your teen have problems with authority?
24. Does your teen engage in activities you don't approve of?
25. Do you think your teen is using or experimenting with drugs/alcohol?
26. Are you concerned about your child's well being and their future?
27. Does your teen seem to be in constant opposition to your family values?
28. No matter what rules and consequences are established, does your teen defy them?
29. Are you exhausted and worn out from your teens defiant behaviors and choices?
30. When dealing with your teen, do you often feel that you are powerless?
       
     

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"There are three choices when faced with a problem.  We can:
 
        1) "Check out" (ignore or deny)
        2)  Become part of the problem
        3)  Become part of the solution